Second one.
Half million twitter followers, bunch of mainstream company releases, not an A-lister but well known if you’re into their specific genre. Female. They are a friend, we chat all the time. She’s hella autistic, but a nice person.
It was during a shoot and the shot needed it. I was directing and I wasn’t gonna ask someone else to do something if I wasn’t willing to do it myself so… I did it. It’s not my thing at all but we didn’t have anyone who really really wanted it, so…
You know, it felt like someone was putting a cigarette out on my wrist. It’s absolutely not my kink, but the shot needed it so…
Also there are a few tricks you an use so you’re not as badly burnt as people may think. You give the cig a little bit to cool down so it’s still lit, but not bright red, and you lick your wrist a couple of times immediately ahead of the burn. Still hurts like a motherfuck though.
Essentially forever. If I want to orgasm not only do I have to concentrate, but I need very specific kinds of stimulation. It’s a real bother most of the time, but I have never in my life finished early, so…
Known model from abbywinters / girlsoutwest / beautifulagony from back in the day.
At this point Ada apparently had some communication with @[email protected] on Matrix, to which I was not privy. He told me, and I said that I had responded to Ada via Lemmy message. He had to step away, so I took over correspondence with Ada via Matrix.
As requested, the correspondence between me and the blahaj admin, posted with her permission. It started with this message (her* original message is on the bottom, my reply is on top):
YOU’RE NOT THE BOSS OF ME
There there, robot. You’re doing your best.
Hey just a quick FYI, if anyone here in the US is thinking of taking this instance over, I would strongly recommend becoming extremely familiar with correctly implementing section 230 of the Communications Decency Act and related laws. And I don’t mean just reading it and thinking “I am a smart person, I get this now”. I mean learning how large social media sites and their T&S teams actually implement it for real. Otherwise you will very possibly go to a PMITA prison and wind up on the sex offender registry.
I’m not messing with you. The feds do not fuck around with this stuff.
Jeffrey Coombs hasn’t been in Lower Decks, Prodigy or SNW yet. He needs to get on that!
There are three or four other instances that allow nsfw content, but it’s forbidden for most instances because NSFW content is a massive pain in the ass to moderate. Depending what country you’re in you probably have a lot of regulations you need to follow, including in the US where you need to comply with safe harbor regulations so you don’t get in trouble when some asshole uploads a bunch of underage stuff to your server.
Even outside the legal stuff, you’re going to have to deal with a lot of weirdos and negotiate and regulate other people’s sexual fetishes to a significant degree. Most people just don’t want to deal with that, and I can’t blame them.
As an admin, when I’m scrolling through and I see a post with -200 votes, it immediately lets me know I should look at what’s going on. That said, I’m sensitive to the fact that certain content gets downvoted … unfairly? disproportionately? and it’s not fun for a lot of people. I’m honestly of two minds.