• Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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    7 months ago

    The biggest tragedy of pet ownership is that they just don’t live long enough.

    This is true, but there is no ‘long enough’ unless it is ‘from the moment you get it until you die.’ The pain of losing a dog is just an unfortunate part of having a dog and they just will never live long enough for you to not feel that pain.

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      7 months ago

      My sister lost her dog this weekend in a freak accident and everyone in the family - not just her husband and kids - are devastated. He was such an essential part of every gathering.

      He wasn’t just a dog, he was my friend.

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        7 months ago

        I’m sorry. I know your heart is broken and nothing but time can ease it. I lost my cat in January at 15 years old from hyperthyroid related kidney failure. We met when she was a feral kitten and ran out from under a food truck and tried to take me down by the ankle. We bonded instantly. It has me at a heightened state of awareness of the mortality of my two dogs and remaining cat. It hurts like hell and I’m so sorry you lost your friend.

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        7 months ago

        I’m sorry for your loss. My dog is getting older and I don’t know what my family will do without her when she passes away.

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      7 months ago

      Yep. I can remember this past October when we lost our dog of 15 years, telling myself and my girlfriend that we were never going to avoid this happening to him/us. There was no magic formula or pill or procedure that was going to give him to us forever.

      And while it didn’t necessarily make us feel better about it, it made enough sense that it helped us cope with the loss with better understanding.

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        7 months ago

        I’m watching my dog get gray in the muzzle and struggling with this myself. Thank you.