Nah, you gotta phrase it more direct - really hone in on the absurdity (just not with children around) “so its less gay to play with action figures with abs than it is to play with dolls with boobs?” (Realistically, you dont want to say that, because they’ll think very poorly of you…but does highlight the backwards thinking.)

Reminds me of the middle school kid who got bullied for hanging out with girls all the time…that lad was the smartest one of us.