• rab@lemmy.ca
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    7 months ago

    I think I would love being a parent too but I can’t come up with a single non-selfish reason I would reproduce in this day and age

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      7 months ago

      Because life is and will continue to be pretty good for a lot of people. I definitely think it will be for my kid. Also, Idiocracy. If all the good, thoughtful people take your attitude then every human will be an idiot or asshole, which is an utterly hopeless future. I get that hopelessness. I felt more or less as you do for a while. But there a good, noble reasons to have a family. It’s not so cut and dry.

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        7 months ago

        I mean let’s set aside that the world is ending, my wife and I cannot even afford to buy our own apartment, both with very good careers. Unless I inherit several million from my parents I just can’t see myself providing a good life for a child here in Canada. They would be set up for failure…

        You’re totally right in that majority of breeders are idiots (obviously you are not one) and that’s just another reason I don’t want to bring a child into this. I would have to homeschool them.