This is a man terrified of how horny it gets him when his wife exerts her will at all. Like he’s definitely into it, but he’s so repressed there’s no way he can even process something like being told to wear a collar and take a flogging, no he’s over here thinking he’s some absolute deviant for fantasizing about his wife politely but firmly telling him to go down on her.

There’s a whole world of pleasure and fantasy out there for those who have the self awareness to try what they want, but he’s gonna be some sick freak trying to control how other people fuck so he doesn’t have to ever acknowledge his milquetoast fantasies. The absolute loser.