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Cake day: June 18th, 2024

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  • I metaphorically devour the memory for power. I’m still alive and it’s highly likely that I’m the only person on the entire planet thinking about it. Obviously these memories are extremely powerful, but it’s not doing me any good if I just feel embarrassed again every time I think about them. Harness that crazy shame energy and try to put it to actual productive use somehow. Just knowing that I can be that embarrassed and be absolutely fine actually gives me more confidence. Simply wallowing in the embarrassment only takes confidence away.

    Edit: Sorry I didn’t see you described the whole situation, I was writing very generally. Overall, it still applies. Except that maybe the moment is also replaying in your gf’s head for her own embarrassment at unintentionally embarrassing you. It’s honestly probably worse for her, at least you’re safe in the knowledge that you were misrepresented due to shrinkage lol




  • Vampires are older than property law, I think the power that keeps them out comes from physically dwelling in the place. As long as they’re still living there, regardless of what a judge decided, it’s their home as far as a vampire is concerned. Otherwise they could just ask each other for permission to enter someone else’s house. I’m trying to remember if this came up in Buffy…







  • Try going in with a recipe that you plan on making as soon as you get home, then the other stuff you buy should only be the stuff you know you’ll actually eat or stuff that won’t go bad. Of course there’s the issue of having to buy more of a product than you need for the recipe, but that’s hard to avoid.

    If you need advice on how to better motivate yourself to make the choices you know you should make, I’m afraid I’m wholly unqualified to help.