There’s some of the obvious ones like cleanliness and being kind to service people. I think dress sense is one to a degree as well, I don’t mean being super curated but at least putting some effort in.
One of the more boring ones I’ve picked up as I’ve aged is financial literacy and being good with money. I love a guy with a big spreadsheet.
Hobbies is one for me too. Something people are interested in or passionate about gives them depth and character.
I’m not sure why but the fact it was a 66 year old woman who was shot makes it feel worse. Maybe because that’s how old my mum is basically and I can see her putting up a pride flag for me.
Her poor family have lost a mother, wife and sister over a flag.
They were absolutely the best. I was watching that episode with my dad the other week and he said something along the lines of how cute a couple they were.
It was a really lovely moment for me seeing such sweet representation and also hearing my dad say something positive. Growing up he’d switch the channel or make vomit noises if he saw a gay couple on TV so he’s really progressed. Made sure to tell him I appreciate that he’s done that and had a nice bonding moment!
We have one in our office that we put on a shelf above eye height when we’re all working. It seems to be okay just kind of shining down on us. It’s usually on the whole day but we’re only in for a few hours at a time, we all have meetings and appointments with other people so pop in and out of the office.