• Jo Miran@lemmy.ml
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    6 months ago

    Once you hit 45+ all remaining “give a fucks” disappear and dating becomes much easier. This is a gender agnostic statement.

    • craftyindividual@lemm.ee
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      6 months ago

      I got increasingly tired by 30-37 years. Then the doctor worked out I was anaemic and gave me iron infusion - now I’m as energetic as a normal 38 year old. There’s no cure for apathy though.

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    6 months ago

    I got out of a 10+ year relationship a couple years ago and got to say I’m content on my own. Tried like four dating sites and realized I’m happier by myself.

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      6 months ago

      wife of 12 years left 3 years ago, i haven’t even try a new relationship, and if i do, i am afraid the next one will have to deal with my breakup ptsd and newly acquired trust issues

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      6 months ago

      I got out of a 7 year relationship about 8mo ago… thought I was gonna marry her, she cheated on me. I’m not content on my own, and life feels completely pointless alone. I am literally never not thinking about how miserable I am. Did you experience this? When did it get better?