So, I’ve heard about this happening for basically my whole adult life, but somehow, as a pan woman, I’ve never personally caught any flak for it. I’m not sure why it hasn’t been a thing for me, even as I date men and women and people from beyond those categories. My brother gave me some ribbing about being “greedy” way back when, but it always seemed good natured rather than feeling like an attack. And , in total fairness… I am also poly. I’m not greedy in the sense of being acquisitive and filled with desire for what others have, there are just too many loveable people in this world for me to only date one.
So, I’ve heard about this happening for basically my whole adult life, but somehow, as a pan woman, I’ve never personally caught any flak for it. I’m not sure why it hasn’t been a thing for me, even as I date men and women and people from beyond those categories. My brother gave me some ribbing about being “greedy” way back when, but it always seemed good natured rather than feeling like an attack. And , in total fairness… I am also poly. I’m not greedy in the sense of being acquisitive and filled with desire for what others have, there are just too many loveable people in this world for me to only date one.