• stebo02@sopuli.xyz
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    10 months ago

    If I do this I’m not expecting you to know the answer, I just want to discuss our thoughts. What’s wrong with that?

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      10 months ago

      You’re interrupting the movie and making people miss out. If all agree ahead of time to do a MST3K kinda thing, sure. As a compromise: pause the movie first.

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      10 months ago

      Not to say it’s objectively wrong, but if it’s someone like me that you’re watching a movie with, I generally expect quiet. A comment here and there is probably fine in the right context, but constantly breaking into conversation mid-movie is a distraction I don’t really appreciate. Generally, I think it’s important to understand the expectations of everyone involved.

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        10 months ago

        yeah sure if they ask me to be quiet I’ll be quiet but then I don’t see the point anymore of watching the movie together

        and yes generally it’s just a few comments but some people can’t even stand that lol

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          10 months ago

          Some people just enjoy being around friends, even if they’re not actively engaging each other.

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        10 months ago

        Makes for a bit of a boring hangout if you both just sit silently there through the movie. At that point might as well watch it separately and then get together to discuss it.

        Cinema being different of course, you’re not supposed to talk there to begin with

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          10 months ago

          Different strokes for different folks I guess. If you like talking during the movie that’s fine, just don’t do it with other people that prefer quiet.

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            10 months ago

            I haven’t had anyone invite me over to sit in complete silence yet but I wouldn’t imagine those people want people to come over anyway.

            The problem solves itself hah

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              10 months ago

              Yeah everyone in this thread probably being too literal, myself included lol.

              Like, I’m not gonna get mad if someone makes a quick comment or quip during a movie. I’m not asking people to sit there in silence with absolutely no interaction while the movie plays. I’m just asking people to not try and start and maintain a conversation while the movie is playing, which I think is reasonable.