I have cancer. I’m open about it. This medicaid funding shit could literally kill me.

I am so sick of people suggesting I should “pull a Luigi” or “go out like a hero” because they still have things to lose so they don’t want to stand up and lose them. So because I’m gonna die, I should say fuck it and risk it all for a bunch of jerks who wouldn’t and haven’t done the same for me?

Do you have any idea how disrespectful that is to people who are already suffering? When nobody is standing up to sacrifice themselves to save the weak, broken, sick, and disabled? Why’s it our job to save the able bodied? Why can’t these people see that even though they think their heart is in the right place, they’re still basically telling us “your life sucks anyway and will end soon, you should throw it away for the rest of us who never did anything for you” or more simply “kys.”

I’m officially tired of this inconsiderate and frankly ableist bullshit.

Honestly, I wish some mods or admins would make some rules about it since it’s ableist.

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    My more immediate thought is that most people couldn’t even get within 100 miles, and this says nothing of training/planning etc. “why doesn’t somebody do something” is probably just wish fulfillment by others who feel powerless to do anything about it.

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      Only realistic thing most of us can do is get armed and train, keep a pistol on the nightstand and a rifle by the desk. Even that’s not easy if one is a complete noob, takes money and time.

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        This is the exact ableist attitude the OP is talking about. Getting armed and defending yourself isn’t a useful option when they don’t need to storm your house to kill you and even if they did, you might not be able to physically use the gun.

        Self-defense is an ablest concept, get out there and defend one another!

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          This is the exact thing the OP is talking about. Telling people they need to go out and fight, putting their lives on the line when you don’t know their situation.

          Self defense is not an ablest concept, it’s one of the natural response to being threatened, and it’s not limited to getting and using weapons. Ever heard of fight or flight? Fighting in a threatening situation is self defense and implying disabled people are helpless and can’t fight is insulting.