Any July 4 fireworks in the bedroom?

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    27 days ago

    The usual community get-together shenanigans without any sexy times. BUT a guy I talked to on Scruff last week agreed to meet me this Friday. He’s adorable in so many ways, and despite having that spark of youth he’s exactly my age. I want to swallow him whole. He’s a locked bottom and wants me to top aggressively. We’re both at about the same level of kink I think. I feel something tremendous.

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        25 days ago

        Thanks man, I feel incredibly lucky. He messaged me this morning and I made a Ghostbusters reference that probably made me sound like a retard. I’m so far removed from a power top I’m afraid I might have the same problems with him as I do with girls. I could fuck his ass, maybe fist him, choke him a little, but all the while I’d be in awe of how cute he is and doing infantile things because really I want a cutie to top me. I hope there aren’t other misunderstandings. I’m not a chastity bottom and I do like dicks, but I’m afraid of getting too deep into the philosophy of gender with him. He could easily pass for a cis girl, and I’m terribly worried that he’s sensitive like one.

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          25 days ago

          I get that. So far I’ve appreciated just how hard a pounding a guy can take (and wants) compared to a woman, on average. Your concerns are valid and you can always take it slow and escalate to more kinky stuff as you build trust.

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            21 days ago

            It was interesting. He’s such a cutie. He said he’d message me later, but he already has 2 partners who he’s been with for a while. I never did fuck him with my dick, mainly because I felt bad about not being able to take much of a pounding myself. He said I might have a hemorrhoid. I hope I get to go another round with him. I hope he still likes me.